5…4….3……… Yells of “Teacher, Madam, Teacher”…2…1….and …. EMBRACE!
And I was there….I had made it back….my favorite place on earth!
The first thing I noticed as I was excitingly embraced by these two small children, that soon turned into five, then ten, then twenty and so on was thinking to myself “I love this, this is my moment….THIS…is my happy place!”, I had been anticipating this for what seemed like eternity, I could have stayed in that moment forever.
We had finally arrived at Brilliant Academy and I couldn’t have been filled with any more joy than I was in the moment. As the embrace slowly loosened and I began walking to the rest of the assembled children and teachers to embark on my day I already knew the hours were passing too quickly.
As I taught my lesson and every short sentence that I spoke was translated into Ewe I had a hard time not becoming distracted listening to this lovely language. It was hard to focus because I found myself lost, taking in every smiling face that smiling at me as I taught. When I told the children that were working hard to connect each one of them individually to their own pen pal in the US, I was moved by their excitement.
Later, as I sat on the ground with a sleeping baby on my lap and thirty plus children surrounding me in a loving mob, singing to me songs of the Lord, I closed my eyes and prayed simply, as there were no other words ” thank you God, thank you, this is just what I needed, just at this moment, THANK YOU GOD.”
I had more and more of these moments as we continued throughout our da. Babies laughing, children running and making their toys from tree leaves, big ones taking care of little ones, a seven year old, who can speak three languages, reading to me in the most clear and articulate English out of any Ghanaian I have met..in these moments and so many others, I could see God. Truly, in those moments it was as if I had already made it home, as far as I was concerned, this was perfection, I could spend eternity in these moments.
As we pulled away from our teaching posts at then end of the day, my heart ached. Genuinely ached…I don’t want to leave, I kept thinking “one more song, one more conversation, one more Q&A, one more hug….just one more”. As we climbed on the bus the only thing that kept my feet moving was the knowledge that we would be back on Thursday, and on Thursday I wouldn’t just be sharing these moments with Kelsey, Lauren, Erica, Madison and Kelly but I would be sharing them with our whole team. I only pray they get the same joy and contentment that I do from being in this place.
I couldn’t imagine the day to get any better….and there I was putting God in a box again. As we enjoyed our evening putting on a Young Life club, Ghana style, I found myself dancing and singing, worshipping without any reservation. I felt myself longing for the embrace of my Ghanaian brothers and sisters and feeling theirs and the Lord’s love radiating through their bodies into mine. Another perfect, happy place.
As I contemplate this it astounds me. At home I am not a hugger, you can can ask any of the high schoolers I work with. I have this feeling at home that hugs are overdone, they are so much less genuine when you hug people throughout the day and every time you see them. I am more into the grand embrace for a specific and intended reason or at just the right moment, when it is truly needed. But a hug every greeting throughout the day, that to me seems unnecessary and insincere. But here in Ghana, I long for those moments and it leaving me questioning why.
I think it is because here in Ghana, hugs aren’t an overrated greeting or just for show, they are genuine. They are love. Love transferring from one person to another. It as if when you hug someone you are sending an instant message to God and he is sending one right back to your heart. He is saying, “you are loved, you are dear to me and I cherish you!”
I think we Americans, most of us at least, are missing that element. From now on when hug someone I will hug them in the idea that, that hug is connecting me and the other person directly to the Lord, to His embrace. Hugging will no longer be a formality, it will be an honor, a thing to cherish, a moment to pray for someone and love them genuinely without reservation. Akpe na mawu……give glory to the Lord!
Jes Sudol